Americans
aren't social
Americans
are very private people. If you come from a culture where people
invite you to their home because you have some type of business
relationship, forget it. The majority of American business people like to keep
things separate, business versus personal life. When an American
does invite you over to their house, that means you've cross over a
threshold of confidence. Don't push the relationship or try to
'force' a friendship to develop. Time is the only answer. Be
cautious of an American who invites you over to their house after just
meeting you. I would be a little suspicious unless there's a
special occasion to do so.
Find
out what Americans like
Americans
fall into two categories when it comes to activities outside the
workplace: They like sports, Their involved with their community or they
have a special hobby. When you meet an American, one of the things
you should work to figure out is which activity they're involved
in. Finding common ground is the surest way to build rapport with
an American. If they love sports, ask which type (e.g., baseball,
football, soccer, hockey,...etc) Baseball is considered America's
past time but Basketball and American Football run a close second.
If they're involved with community, find out how. Do they donate
their time to some charity or cause? If they have a hobby (e.g.,
sailing, hunting, skiing,...etc) find out more. Even if you don't
know anything about the activity, just asking them lots of questions
will make them like you that much more.
Taking
an American out to eat
The
majority of Americans don't drink alcohol during lunch...not even a
casual glass of wine. If you have to order first, never, never
order alcohol. At dinner, take your cue from your American
guest. If he orders a soft drink (Coca-Cola), then you follow with
something similar. If he or she orders a alcoholic drink, then do
so also if you're a consumer of alcohol. If you order a
non-alcoholic beverage, you will make the American feel uncomfortable.
Talking
business with Americans
Americans
have often been accused of being in a hurry or rush to talk about
business. For the American, time is money. The sooner you
can get the business side out of the way, the better. Americans
are not easily offended if you ask for a better price or delivery.
Negotiation is part of the buying process.
The
dumb American
It's
estimated that 85% of Americans don't have a passport. This means
that, aside from what the media shows them on television, Americans are
ignorant of anything outside the U.S. If you're trying to sell to
Americans, make sure you establish your credentials and credibility
early on in the conversation. Let the American know you mean
business and how you're positioned in your country..
Don't
bullshit an American
Americans
can spell bullshit (i.e., lies and deceit) a mile away. Whatever
you do, don't exaggerate or over-inflate your importance or your ability
to deliver. If you're caught exaggerating, you've just hurt your
chances of doing business in the US with that company. For
example, if you don't have the power or authority to make decisions, let
them know. This isn't viewed as a weakness, but as a
strength. Americans respect honesty and straight talkers and will
work with people who aren't afraid to say what they can and cannot
do. This type of upfront trust establishes mutual understanding
and expectations from both sides.
Titles
mean little
If
you're a top level executive of a company, people in the U.S. will be
respectful. But, the real respect comes from your ability to do
what you say you can do. It's a commonly accepted practice in
business in the U.S. to look beyond title, and look at what the person
can do or has the authority to do. Being a manager, general
manager, director or in some case a vice president here in the U.S.
doesn't carry a lot of weight unless you can deliver on what you
promise. In short, actions speak louder than titles.